Going through random thoughts lately!

Everything that blooms has to wilt, fall and then decay. 

Everything you love and care has a time to go.  

Every beautiful time you spend with your people is not permanent.

There are different stages of your life where you meet different people.

And those moments force you to forget the people you already know.

You do not have to move mountains to impress people.

Little things can create so much joy and happiness.

Make memories while you are still breathing because 

There's no point in regretting after you are in your death bed.

Live your life fully, give what you can. 

Don't hurt others, for they will not always be there. 

Make your life worth living and celebrate the greatness you achieve 

IN YOUR LIFE!!!

Do you ever feel that you have been trapped inside your own body?

Who doesn't. Our human brain is never satisfied of what we have.

Do you ever feel that you just want to slam out with a huge amount of motivation and hard work but your alter ego just slams it right back in.

I want to bring a change in me and my body. I know it is going to be tough!
Lot of criticisms have been made and I have tolerated enough of it. Now I want to do it with heart.

Weight gaining has been a very serious issue that every girl has to confront. Some with a swinging mood of motivation can go back to where they were. Some just tends lose way and become the unsatisfactory you without even noticing. Like me.

Well, I know many of you might find this irrelevant and might think that just writing won't help. But, here's what I feel. I feel that with times changing and with people becoming "figure conscious", it is having an impact on our youths, especially the adolescents.

Body image is taken quite seriously by our youths this days. It is good to be health conscious and keep oneself fit. But not to the extend of criticizing other party about how they look.

Well, I feel that, with motivation and dedication, you can achieve what you dream. Not everyone achieves it freely, a little time and energy needs to be invested.

I will be working. Will you?

I have never felt this way before... feels like somebody is pulling me behind... i don't know i don't feel confident in myself... people have been asking me if i m ok... i just remained silent for i did not what to answer... such a simple question seemed too difficult... these days are killing me.. such a hectic schedule....moreover this rain never seems to stop. Too bored to start a new beginning... and i m too idle to do any works... even if i m lacking behind, i don't actually worry but the thing i do care most is that i just want to run away from here and be in a place where  there are people who does not pretend to be fake....i just hate myself for having this kind of life where people just don't understand...i don't have an idea how people judge me but i just want to say that i m just having being the one i am just now....so please don't poke your nose into my business..you are just temporarily needed.....

Friends do not last forever but friendships do!!!!!

The heart of white rose is the purest of friendship. Each petal delicately formed nurtured with tender love and care. The heart of the rose is like the heart of the soul. Its inner beauty shines beyond all. My best friends: the purest friendship I have been blessed to have. Our friendship makes the world glow with so much happiness. It’s a special gift to have a friend as wonderful as you all.

Effects of media on youth……..

The influence of the media on development of children is profound. Thus it is important to discuss with parents about their child’s exposure to media and to provide guidance on age to ensure the appropriate use of all media including television, radio, music, video games and the internet as well.

Television.

Television has the potential to generate both positive and negative effects and many studies have looked on the impact of television on children and adolescents. Not all television programs are bad but the showing the negative effects of exposure to violence, inappropriate and offensive language are convincing. As we all know that there is a relationship between watching violent television programming and increase in violent behavior by children.

Learning.

Television and internet can be a powerful teacher.  The internet has a significant potential for providing children with access to educational information and can be compared with a huge home library.Programs like ‘My world’ are an example of how youths can learn valuable lessons about cooperation and kindness. Moreover, the educational value of ‘Super Spellers’ has been shown to improve the reading, learning and the speaking skills of its viewers. So at times, healthy television can be a beneficial teaching tool.

Videos games.

Some video games may help the development of fine motor skills and coordination, but many of the concern is on the negative effects of it. Violent video games should be discouraged because they have harmful effects on children’s mental developments. As they grow up, their behavior would be violent.

Nutrition.

Since media takes away time from children which they usually spent on play and exercise. Children who are addicted to media are regarded as less physically fit. Through media, children learn about tobacco and alcohol use; whereby they tend to try it and the behavior they depict are violent at the end.

So that is why media literacy is important in students who usually surf net when they have to research for their assignments, presentations or when they need to clarify something. But youths are unaware of their sites they are not supposed to barge in. media literacy helps us understand how media create culture. Media also act as a watch dog over government acts.

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I am me…..and I am happy for who I am!!!!

Yes, I am a women, who thinks I am matured enough to make my own decisions but sometimes I am badly criticized for my immaturity. I don’t care what others say for I don’t depend too much on anyone on this world since we all know that even our shadow leaves us behind when we are in darkness.  I am a woman, who laughs harder when I try to explain why I am laughing. I walk into a room and forget why I was there. I count on my fingers on math…..I do cry a lot more than you think I do. I love sweet stuffs and can be happy with such small surprises. I always and always laugh at my own jokes and I always wear a smile on my face though it looks good or not. I do not deliver good presentations. I always do things at the last moment. I do like making new friends.    I do care people who are close to me. So though I may not be important to your life, always remember that no matter how useless you think I am, I am still someone’s reason to smile. :)